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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What's on your mind right now? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: Yesterday, 9:17 pm
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Replies: 40,828
Views: 1,167,966
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| wish i had real "friends": "excuse me" instead of "huh" or "what", active listening no flaking no laughing @ me, not materialistic or superficial not condescending don't pressure me to do s**t (cost benefit analysis) (expand comfort zone) receptive semantics e... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: stuck in a rut |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: Yesterday, 7:25 pm
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Replies: 0
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| nobody destroyed my "life". *I* destroyed my "life". 2006 civil engineer, mister "r", san diego, had the nerve to tell me that "it is lying for you to ask me to call you 'he' instead of 'she' ". that statement is wrong. however, everyone has "freedom of s... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: self sabotage |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 15 May 2024, 9:40 pm
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Replies: 0
Views: 72
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| What did you do to sabotage yourself? |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What's on your mind right now? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 14 May 2024, 9:56 pm
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Replies: 40,828
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| really do *not* wanna go to work tomorrow: takes too much time, energy and $$$ to take the bus over there almost getting hit by cars a couple times a day tripping over garbage in the parking lot day laborers litterbox heavy lifting, ass holes refusing to "help" ("you can't lift that?&... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you happy today. |
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Posted: 14 May 2024, 7:32 pm
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Replies: 33,073
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sleep was good
bowel movements
library
nobody bothered me |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today. |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 14 May 2024, 7:28 pm
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Replies: 32,074
Views: 1,132,232
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tried and failed to take a nap
sister emailed to tell me to pull weeds every couple of days. that's a lot of time and energy wasted, s**t.
i'm still alive, s**t.
neither redelings nor kayla b***h bothered to apologize |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What Do You Want? |
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Posted: 14 May 2024, 7:19 pm
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Replies: 102
Views: 1,239
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want someone to do the cooking, cleaning, and driving for me
wanna be a skinny smart handsome cisgender neurotypical white man
wanna not be clinically depressed
wanna job with more and cleaner litterboxes and zero customers
better health, energetic
$$$
"friends" |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: sister |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 14 May 2024, 7:10 pm
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| Sister (44), inherited the house that I (retail) have been living in, alone, since 2020. Sister (medical doctor) lives 20 miles away, with spouse (electrical engineer) and two children (13 & 9). Sister has been paying the property taxes and utilities. Since 2020, sister has been threatening to s... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Zero "friends" at work |
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Posted: 13 May 2024, 8:48 pm
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Replies: 7
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| If the people around you speak AAVE, it's probably worthwhile to learn to understand AAVE rather than blaming your coworkers for speaking how they feel comfortable. ENFJ and ESFJ profiles combined only represent about 7% if the overall population. There's no way they're the majority of hires at you... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "can you" |
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Posted: 13 May 2024, 8:08 pm
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Replies: 11
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| matchbox the first sentence in your post might be correct once in a while. however, the vast majority of the time, precious lil "people" have the nerve to say, "can you" in a way that sounds like they are doing me a personal favor by saying "can you", as though they wer... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Cops at work |
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Posted: 13 May 2024, 7:52 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 574
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| based on previous interactions, it did not appear to me that he meant any "harm". however, things are not always the way they appear. home depot hires convicted felons. plenty of home depot customers have no manners. some police officers have literally gotten away with murder. the requirem... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Over forty and diet |
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Posted: 13 May 2024, 6:58 pm
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Replies: 4
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| ypod january this year, my bloodwork was fine. only four numbers outside the standard reference range, and just barely. i'm 41. my dad died @ 71 from colon cancer. my mom died @ 61 from stroke. my health has been rapidly getting worse lately. esp since my dumpsterfire "job" is manual labor... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Sleeping |
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Posted: 13 May 2024, 6:25 pm
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Replies: 7
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| How often do you have difficulty falling or staying asleep? a couple times a week. sometimes it takes a couple hours to fall asleep or i wake up and can't fall back asleep for a couple of hours. How often do you sleep at work or school? fell asleep in the breakroom @ work 2x in three and a half yea... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Work history |
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Posted: 13 May 2024, 6:02 pm
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Replies: 5
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| all the jobs i had, were the lowest ranking jobs in those companies. minimum wage, unskilled, not professional jobs, do not require a high school diploma, any old monkey. 41 years old. zero promotions. longest job, three years and five months and counting. Lot Attendant at home depot. hard: almost g... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Food A-Z |
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Posted: 13 May 2024, 5:52 pm
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Replies: 8,104
Views: 107,273
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you happy today. |
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Posted: 13 May 2024, 5:51 pm
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Replies: 33,073
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| went to an unfamiliar home depot nobody bothered me the past couple of days only had to work half a day yesterday bowel movements good the past couple of days slept well the past couple of days buses came quickly on saturday took naps on friday, saturday, sunday, and monday zero loading yesterday |
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