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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: SQL ERROR [ mysqli ] |
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Good metaphor.
Seems to help if I hit the back button and keep re-trying. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Fear of death |
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I find it a sad thought that some poor devil will have to clear my house of all the junk I've collected when I kick the bucket. I guess with you, your things feel more like pets, only with real pets somebody usually adopts them. :( Me, I'm more sad about having to cease to exist, and more scared abo... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Over forty and diet |
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:56 pm
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I did start eating healthier when I was about 40, yes. I started to panic a bit about bad diet and smoking too much. I'm scared of cancer and the horrible treatments they have for it. Wasn't too hard to fix the eating because I'd been into health food since I was a teenager and liked the taste of go... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Want to seem trustworthy to adult neighbors |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: Yesterday, 11:38 pm
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It's tricky if you keep yourself to yourself a lot. I think people feel safer about people they know a bit about, and suspicious of people they don't. Hate to say it, but I think a bit of small talk seems to go a long way. It's good to reveal a bit about who you are and what you do, in small doses, ... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: SQL ERROR [ mysqli ] |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: Yesterday, 11:17 pm
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Is this likely to set itself straight any time soon? General Error SQL ERROR [ mysqli ] Too many connections [1040] An sql error occurred while fetching this page. Please contact an administrator if this problem persists. It's been happening fairly randomly for an hour or so. How long should I toler... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: anyone else sick of neurotypical people |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: Yesterday, 11:12 pm
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As individuals, I don't care what their brain wiring is as long as they treat me with respect and we get on OK, and I've known some good people who are very likely NT. They may have a few skills that I don't have, so we can complement each other. But ASD types and NTs tend to have particular problem... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Biden and Trump agree to debate twice |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: Yesterday, 7:43 pm
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I don't see it as doing any good. Democrats will still vote Democratic and Republicans will still vote Republican Both candidates will deny what the other one says It wouldn't be likely to affect my views to watch them in a debating contest. I don't care about debating skills. It's all cheating any... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Shout at your brain |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: Yesterday, 6:31 pm
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Cornflake wrote: Shut up, shut up, SHUT UP! That's enough with the thought avalanches already. But I haven't posted yet.
Seriously, yes I'd say that to mine when I want to sleep. But it wouldn't listen. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How Drugs are used in Autism |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: Yesterday, 11:41 am
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When I handed my (private) ASD diagnosis in to my NHS doctor, she said antidepressants and sedatives were the only thing she could do for me. To date I haven't taken her up on her offer. I don't trust psych meds. Even when somebody gave me a couple of amphetamine tablets so I could stay awake at a g... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Did you self isolate as a child? |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: Yesterday, 1:25 am
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I was about half and half. I never consciously decided to isolate myself, and always started to feel lonely if I had to be alone for a long time, but wasn't fazed by a few hours of working on a project. I didn't feel unpopular and wasn't really non-social as a kid. If somebody was willing to play or... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Have you heard of "tone policing"? |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: Yesterday, 1:15 am
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Replies: 44 Views: 6,884
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I remembered this comment you made in another thread a while back. It seems relevant to the current discussion. I very rarely benefit from trigger warnings myself, so it's hard for me to appreciate the circumstances in which another person might find one useful. https://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewt... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Have you heard of "tone policing"? |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: 15 May 2024, 10:30 pm
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Replies: 44 Views: 6,884
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Well, you're entitled to your opinion. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Have you heard of "tone policing"? |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: 15 May 2024, 8:49 pm
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Replies: 44 Views: 6,884
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TwilightPrincess wrote: It’s a triggering topic. Very. Probably the most triggering one I've ever seen. Needs excellent people skills to discuss it without doing more harm than good. Those are very rare. I think everybody made mistakes, self included. People's experiences in such debates are very different. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What Do You Want? |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: 15 May 2024, 6:44 pm
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More happiness. I'm not unhappy but I'd like a bit more. |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Favorite plane? |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: 15 May 2024, 6:27 pm
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Replies: 31 Views: 6,587
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That would be the notorious "Fokker tri-plane" flown by the notorious "Red Baron" of Germany in the first WW. But it only has two wings. So its only a 'biplane'. So its a failed depiction of the plane that they are trying to depict. Yes but I don't like triplanes. No disrespect ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Have you heard of "tone policing"? |
ToughDiamond |
Posted: 15 May 2024, 5:56 pm
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Replies: 44 Views: 6,884
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When talking about sexual abuse, people need to be able to engage in the topic without victim blaming or dismissive or otherwise hurtful commentary. Most often, folks try to inform individuals who engage in those behaviors, and when no progress is made, frustration or simply trying a different tact... |
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