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11 Nov 2017, 8:06 am

^ Um... the cavemen dragging women by the hair is a cartoon thing; it’s not real.



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11 Nov 2017, 8:08 am

Cavewomen would have kicked the caveman’s butt—trust me.

Or at least denied him sex.

Or sent her brothers after him.



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11 Nov 2017, 8:16 am

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Um... the cavemen dragging women by the hair is a cartoon thing; it’s not real.

Um..... and sometimes I forget this is an aspie site where forum members might take things too literally.
My bad.



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11 Nov 2017, 3:20 pm

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Sly is like 6 foot 3. He has a large build. 150 is ideal for me at 5 foot 5. To him, he would look too thin.

I hope he has no intention of going down to 150.

BMI is not a precise measure, anyway.

I am. That’s where I need to be to be thin so women might possibly find me attractive atleast for sexual use. It’ll take 10 months or so though at my current 10 pounds a month. But if I either reduce my food intact further or excirces burning 600 calories and just don’t replensih them that should help speed it up.
This guy is 6’2 150pounds
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Though given my rib cage I look funny :(



This lady is 5’ 150 pounds
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11 Nov 2017, 4:26 pm

Ain't nothing wrong with that lady! She's a little bit chubby---but not bad at all!

The guy in the picture is much younger than you----probably a teenager. I was 110-120 at the same height as a teenager. After age 21, I could never go below 140 lbs. You have to consider the "fill-in" factor---and that you might have a large build.

Most of the time, 6 foot 3 and 150 lbs is considered too thin.



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11 Nov 2017, 4:45 pm

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Ain't nothing wrong with that lady! She's a little bit chubby---but not bad at all!

The guy in the picture is much younger than you----probably a teenager. I was 110-120 at the same height as a teenager. After age 21, I could never go below 140 lbs. You have to consider the "fill-in" factor---and that you might have a large build.

Most of the time, 6 foot 3 and 150 lbs is considered too thin.

Chubby? I’d say she’s really thin. Well out of my league.



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11 Nov 2017, 4:47 pm

She weighs 150 lbs....and is 5 feet tall. Do you get my point now?

You're 15 inches taller than her. And she's a woman!

You don't look too bad even at 280. I wouldn't be surprised if you looked great at 200.



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11 Nov 2017, 4:51 pm

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She weighs 150 lbs....and is 5 feet tall. Do you get my point now?

You're 15 inches taller than her.

You don't look too bad even at 280. I wouldn't be surprised if you looked great at 200.


CDC: For your height, a normal weight range would be from 148 to 199 pounds.
I need to be thin.



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11 Nov 2017, 4:54 pm

It depends on your body build.....So that means you can be 199 lbs, and still be "normal."

All you'd have to do at 200 lbs is to lose 1 pound.

According to the BMI index, I'm "obese." I have a 30 BMI.

If you weigh 240, you would be in the same area I am in.

Nobody ever thinks I'm fat.

By the way, at 5 feet tall, the woman in the picture is considered "obese" according to the chart. I wouldn't consider her "obese," though. I would consider her "a little chubby, with good meat on her bones." She probably has a husky body type.



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11 Nov 2017, 4:58 pm

Most people 6 foot 3 would look too thin at 150 lbs.

I've known people that height, and that thin. They look "lanky"--they look too thin.

Women like height----but they don't like skinny.

I forgot to mention: the figures are for ADULTS 6 foot 3, not MEN 6 foot 3. 148 lbs for a man at 6 foot 3 would be unhealthy according to even these people.



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11 Nov 2017, 6:24 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
It depends on your body build.....So that means you can be 199 lbs, and still be "normal."

All you'd have to do at 200 lbs is to lose 1 pound.

According to the BMI index, I'm "obese." I have a 30 BMI.

If you weigh 240, you would be in the same area I am in.

Nobody ever thinks I'm fat.

By the way, at 5 feet tall, the woman in the picture is considered "obese" according to the chart. I wouldn't consider her "obese," though. I would consider her "a little chubby, with good meat on her bones." She probably has a husky body type.

She looks thin to me. I wouldn’t look at or talk to someone her size. I won’t message girls like her in dating sites either. They too good for me and will know it.

People say I’m fat.



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11 Nov 2017, 6:38 pm

She’s considered “obese” because of her BMI, though.....goes to show how accurate “BMI” really is.



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11 Nov 2017, 6:43 pm

If she’s not obese at 150 lbs, you wouldn’t be obese at 240, like I’m not obese at 180.



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11 Nov 2017, 7:29 pm

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If she’s not obese at 150 lbs, you wouldn’t be obese at 240, like I’m not obese at 180.

I have a belly that’s like 2-4” past my waist she doesn’t.

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All those women except the last one on the right are too good for me, and I don’t find the last one attractive. So who do I date?

Likewise all these women are too good for me
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11 Nov 2017, 7:36 pm

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She’s considered “obese” because of her BMI, though.....goes to show how accurate “BMI” really is.

No just thst I’m faulty at judging women sizes, or thst I’ve been properly re-educate. Y the fat women movement since my birth.

I see women differently then most men. I’m sure there’s wouodmsay she’s chubby or fat like you.

It’s horrible as it eliminates most women for me :(



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11 Nov 2017, 7:53 pm

The lady in the picture might be purposely pulling her belly in.

150 lbs at 5 feet even is pretty chubby. Not that I mind it! :heart: